And Falling Into That Water

In high school, you had two options: either you were with it, or you weren't. You got down with the get-down or were chilling.......

All that to say Highschool were the days when your hormones just started to awaken and sex started to be a push as the next new adventure. Well, at least at my school it was.

The Way Of A Prince Or The Way Of The Masses?

An again, I had two different prospective

when it came to chasing girls and sex.

1# The Strange Woman

This is a story from the bible that talks about an ancient thot/hoe that devours and leads men, souls, and hell by having sex with them.

I was taught to beware of this type of girl and wait until marriage to have sex.

I followed this way for a while, but again I peeked over the fence and wanted to see if the grass was green on the other side.

2# The Way Of The Masses

At the time, I surrounded myself with friends that didn't grow up with these principles and morals taught to them. All they knew was to chase a girl and complete their mission. This meaning purse the girl, tell her what she wants to hear, and play his role until he got what he wanted out of her.

The Process That Drowns Your Soul

This way of living seems fun initially, but let me break down what actually happens to your mental and spiritual health.

1.Attraction: The feeling of you liking the opposite sex from their looks, statice, or you being able to imagine yourself with that person.

2.Pursuit: Chasing the opposite like starting a conversation

3.Connecting: The one being pursued finds the purser to be attractive, and exchange contact info

4.Talking: Getting to know the person through conversation and even have sex (Once sex have been achieved, the chase is over) A lot of people stop here but keep advancing

5.Dating: A stage of lust and a false version of love (Infatuation) is usually combined with sex creating a soul tie until the relationship's spark goes out.

6.Break-up: The mental and spiritual scars of two souls being ripped apart.

And the cycle starts again in the search for "True Love And Satisfaction," creating generational curses, broken families, unwanted children, abortions, STD's and much more.

Sex Is a sacred covenant made for one man and one woman to be the glue to marriage and family reproduction.

When you sleep with someone, two souls become one; it's not just a physical act. So when you break away from that person, they take a piece of your soul with them.

"How do I know?" because I experienced it and have seen many go through it.

The lifestyle promoted as "Culture" will never bring you peace, allow you to build with a trusted partner, or build a family that lives by the word of God as the ultimate blueprint for Life.

The Way Of A Prince

It first started when I had a mentor help me peep that the masses' way was killing my drive, soul, and relationship with my creator.

Me dropping my seed to get nothing in return was draining the life force out of me. It seems fun at first, but I had To look into my future and ask myself.

Future King

• Is that lifestyle worth compromising my relationship with God?
• Will you make the same mistake as King Solomon?
• Are you willing to kill your spirit to satisfy your body?

Future Business Owner

• If You had children outside of marriage, how that affects your future?
• Would you want someone other than your wife to have access to your assets?
• How would that lifestyle affect your building stage?

Future Husband

• Do you want to bring heavy baggage and toxicity into your marriage?
• Do you want to put your sacred promise of marriage in jeopardy because of your lifestyle?
• Do you want your future wife to be living that same lifestyle?

Future Leader

• Is this a standard that you want to leave for the ones after you?
• Will this lifestyle grow you into the person you're meant to be?
• Do you want to live as a hypocrite?

These are questions I had to ask myself in the middle

of me dating someone and calling myself in love.

I was told lust called love would blind you, but true love will show you the truth. So I took the journey to rebuild myself to become the man I'm becoming today!

If you're at the crossroad of wanting to rebuild and heal from past pains and traumas, I want to give you my step-by-step guide and process that took 2 years to make. Summed up in less than 20 minutes with a cheat sheet as a guide to help you start your journey!